Will you own your personal space completely? Or will you share it with another? What if it is truly a matter of life, spiritual wellness, or reaching your highest potential in this lifetime? What will you choose?
When we merge with another romantically, especially sexually, it can make us feel whole and satiated to the depths of our being as if we are truly walking on air. This vibration of contentment is very recognizable to others. As a culture, we gravitate towards love in all forms. We crave it and want that physical sensation of union in the body and it’s ripples of pleasure that can go on for day, hours, or even weeks on end with the right partner. Sensations of bliss can enhance mood, and positively stimulate our immunity and cardiovascular health. The euphoria shared with another is one of the best gifts that the physical body provides, as long as there is an energetic counterbalance to the mating. This counterbalance is the ability to separate out from our beloved, to be able to focus on one’s personal needs, goals and dreams.
Can you be together and not completely self-sacrifice in the name of love?
Sometimes when we separate out from our loved ones, we can feel empty or experience a sense of incompleteness from deep within. The joyous fulfillment of union can dissipate and we then feel a void. A longing or lusting can build for that person to provide those feelings of elation or to get us “high” again. We want them and we want them to want us in return. We want to be together…forever…like the fairytale tell us is possible.
From a Hallmark Valentine holiday perspective, this is grand. From an energy medicine perspective, we must be careful. We must learn to fill ourselves up first, for our own physical and spiritual health. There is a danger when we cannot hold onto our personal space or find the distinction point between you and me. I speak from experience. My story below…
Finding the distinction point between you and another is a dance that will twist and turn throughout your time together. Romantic love encourages us to give it all in the name of love, but what if by giving it all, it leaves us feeling depleted, confused, and not in our bodies? How can we create the 3 healthy borders or spaces: you, me and us? It is the winning format for the modern mystic, where all three parts thrive and have personal freedom for creativity and expression.
My saving grace has been that I use Acutonics Tuning Forks and energy medicine as a method for Soul Retrieval, to keep coming back home to myself over and over. There is no place like Ohm, which is being grounded to the frequency of the earth.
The Acutonics Tuning Forks that I use work in conjunction with Traditional Chinese Medicine to reclaim your space and pull your spirit more fully into your body and tune up various organs and systems. When you are anchored in your body, the path is clear. When you are not, it is murky my friends.
Donna Carey, author of the book -There is no place like Ohm says, “A key to working with Acutonics is to understand both the traditional functioning of the Extraordinary Vessels (Chinese Medicine) and the profound role that cosmic vessels play in supporting our deep longing for connection and At-one-ment with our spiritual and evolutionary directive for growth.” This information was further affirmed and verified by my extensive training at the Academy of Intuition Medicine with Francesca Mc Cartney, author of Body of Health. There is a clear conenction between the SIS (Spirital Incarnation System TM) and the pathways of acupuncture points and meredians in the body.
As a natural caretaker, I had to learn how to fill me up with me so that I could find fulfillment aside from giving to others, and to maintain my energy reserves at optimum, healthy levels. I also had to learn how to clear my space to remain healthy and happy.
This then became a journey into something richer, greater, and perhaps more complete than romantic love. This personal journey allowed me to source information from the great mysteries that lie within my body and it’s energy anatomy systems. The answers are always within!
The more we unravel and unearth our personal inner story, the more relaxation and freedom we can find because we are not reliant on another to create our joy or bliss. We can discover it from within, and if the people in our lives happen to bring some good vibes to the table, then that is sugar on the top!
Amanda (circa 2003)
I had just bought a neon green cell phone and attached a sticker onto it that literally said- “Fairytales do come True!”
I was in LOVE and in the ecstatic throws of planning my 1stwedding. I was head over heels, on Cloud 9, and then some. My significant other was ALL that mattered to me. He was my King and my life would be like a fairy tale. I would live happily ever after.
I had just landed a dream job at an International Floral and Botanical company, but then realized timing conflicts and how hard it was going to be to plan a wedding, and work full time. I opted to leave the job because ultimately my life would be about him. I wouldn’t really need to work and I also wanted to be available to travel with him to all his events. I immediately started redirected all my energies into being the PERFECT WIFE. I did everything and I took care of everything. I was some bizarre-incarnate form of Martha Stewart and I was very happy for a while. I did everything and anything he needed so that he could stay at the top of his game and perform, make money, etc.
I made this decision because energetically, I was fully merged with my significant other. We were One vs. Two and ultimately this would cause problems.
It was not until I started practicing Yoga and meditating regularly that a new voice started to emerge; which would be the voice of my soul. This voice wanted me to start developing myself more, go back to school, and start to have another identity aside from a wife. These changes were not exactly welcomed because others can become reliant and accustomed to being number one.
The problem is that is we give too much of our life force to another, at some point we usually start to resent that, because as fantastic as marriage can be, we all have a personal destiny to fulfill or a soul contract. If we are under acknowledged, or if abuse begins to surface in some form within the relationship, anger can start to build inwardly, as well as outwardly.
Similar to the TV series Big Little Lies, we can have the trappings of a fabulous life on the outside, but underneath, pain can reside with deep spiritual suffering. This type of spiritual malady was what also drove the main character in Eat, Pray, Love to hit the road and travel to three countries in hopes of finding herself.
I have also seen this spiritual pain over and over again, with clients. We have to look ourselves in the mirror and accept all the things that we pushed aside so that we can be in compliance with, and take care of others. As time grows, we may feel like we lost a BIG part of ourselves along the way. Our Spirit can weaken and we can feel depressed because we have lost touch with our true essence.
The Reclaiming of One’s Self or Soul Retrieval
How can we hear the calling of our life’s path if there is so much noise from others? We often seek counsel of others versus sitting quietly and listening to our own inner voice.
My Valentine’s gift to you is to get quiet and listen to your deepest heart’s desire.
This Valentine’s Day
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